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May Trend Summary: Emotional Fatigue, Everyday Resilience

May 2025

  • The Real Feel Team
  • In May, emotional strain hit a high across many groups. Stress and anxiety rose in tandem with political tensions, economic fears, and personal struggles around identity and control. And yet, beneath the surface, many Americans demonstrated a striking level of resilience, pushing through mental health challenges, reflecting on their values, and reaching for moments of joy.

    Overall Mood:

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    May began with a national mood score of 6.7, as Americans dealt with a mix of exhaustion, frustration, and underlying stress. Throughout the month, mood scores dipped slightly before recovering, ending at 7.0 by the final week.

    The first half of the month saw low mood scores fueled by arguments, financial hardship, and persistent burnout. Many described being overwhelmed, emotionally, financially, or mentally, with some citing deep sadness, despair, or anger about everything from personal relationships to the state of the world.

    By the second half of May, resilience started to emerge. Americans shared small but significant moments of mental clarity, from exercising to being outdoors to accepting imperfection. For many, a mindset of "keep going" became a source of calm and control amid the chaos.

    Feeling anxious and overwhelmed. I'm disabled and live with elderly parents. Everything seems to be going wrong, and I have no one to talk to.

    Mood: 3, Anxious, Female, 30–44, White / Caucasian, HHI $25,000–49,999, Single, Associate Degree, Democrat, New Jersey

    Mentally I'm spiraling. Not doing good, lost my job recently and my relationship is falling apart.

    Mood: 2, Sad, Male, 18–29, White / Caucasian, HHI $10,000–24,999, Single, Some college, no degree, Democrat, Texas

    I am just in a really bad place mentally. I feel like a failure at 23 and I don't see a light at the end of the tunnel.

    Mood: 3, Sad, Female, 18–29, Hispanic, Latino/a, or of Spanish Origin, HHI $25,000–49,999, Single, Bachelor's Degree, Independent, New York

    Frustrated and unmotivated. The world is a mess and I'm just trying to get through the day.

    Mood: 5, Angry, Non-binary, 18–29, White / Caucasian, HHI $50,000–74,999, Single, Bachelor's Degree, Democrat, California

    I'm calm, I'm healthy, and I'm free. My kids are safe and I had a great workout this morning.

    Mood: 9, Calm, Female, 30–44, Black or African American, HHI $75,000–99,999, Married, Bachelor's Degree, Republican, Florida

    I'm feeling grateful today. It's not perfect but I'm alive and I'm trying.

    Mood: 7, Grateful, Male, 30–44, Asian or Pacific Islander, HHI $50,000–74,999, Married, Master's Degree, Democrat, Illinois

    Mental Health in the Spotlight:

    Throughout May, which coincided with Mental Health Awareness Month, emotional strain was more openly acknowledged than in past months. People named their anxiety, sadness, and even hopelessness more directly, often pointing to specific mental health challenges or triggers.

    Whether it was burnout, depressive episodes, anxiety spirals, or self-doubt, mental well-being was top of mind. Many respondents shared they were trying to cope without support, or struggling to access resources and time for recovery.

    Still, despite feeling overwhelmed, many Americans expressed pride in simply enduring, showing up for work, making space for joy, or naming their emotions as a step toward healing.

    I've been in a bad depressive episode but I'm trying to show up. It's hard, but I'm still here.

    Mood: 4, Sad, Female, 18–29, Black or African American, HHI $10,000–24,999, Single, Some college, no degree, Democrat, Georgia

    Anxious. Life feels like it's happening too fast, I can't keep up. I'm tired of pretending I'm okay.

    Mood: 5, Anxious, Male, 18–29, Hispanic, Latino/a, or of Spanish Origin, HHI $25,000–49,999, Single, High School Diploma or GED, Democrat, Oregon

    Exhausted mentally. It's not one thing, it's everything all at once.

    Mood: 5, Tired, Female, 45–60, White / Caucasian, HHI $50,000–74,999, Married, Bachelor's Degree, Republican, Michigan

    I got out of bed and showered. That's progress today.

    Mood: 6, Ok, Female, 30–44, White / Caucasian, HHI $25,000–49,999, Divorced, Associate Degree, Democrat, North Carolina

    I'm learning to be kind to myself.

    Mood: 7, Calm, Male, 45–60, Asian or Pacific Islander, HHI $75,000–99,999, Married, Graduate Degree, Independent, Colorado

    Other Key Takeaways from May:

    • Political unease remained a top stressor. Many Americans expressed frustration or fear about the political climate. Some referenced specific leaders or policies; others cited a general loss of trust in institutions and national direction.

    Because the president of the U.S. is spiriting away people to foreign prisons without due process and no one is stopping him or swinging a shovel at his skull.

    Mood: 3, Angry, Male, 30–44, White / Caucasian, Married, HHI $150,000–174,999, Graduate Degree, Democrat

    • Young adults were particularly overwhelmed. Respondents under 30 showed the highest levels of emotional volatility, with sharp swings between stress, despair, and hope. Financial instability, relationship struggles, and self-worth were common sources of distress.

    I feel like I'm failing at everything and I'm only 25.

    Mood: 3, Sad, Male, 18–29, Asian or Pacific Islander, HHI $10,000–24,999, Single, Some college, no degree, Independent, Arizona

    • Faith and nature provided calm. For some, faith, prayer, or simply being in nature offered relief from mental fatigue. These moments often helped create a sense of grounding and perspective.

    Read scripture this morning and took a walk in silence. Feeling peaceful.

    Mood: 8, Calm, Female, 61+, Black or African American, HHI $25,000–49,999, Widowed, High School Diploma or GED, Republican, Mississippi

    • Small victories mattered. From getting a good night's sleep to finishing chores, people found strength in small, everyday achievements. For many, these moments of progress, however minor, offered a break from the mental heaviness.

    Finally cleaned my room and did laundry. I feel accomplished.

    Mood: 7, Ok, Non-binary, 18–29, White / Caucasian, HHI $10,000–24,999, Single, Associate Degree, Democrat, Washington

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